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Share Your Story

Many people affected by assisted dying carry experiences that are difficult to name and even harder to place.

 

These stories often sit in isolation—held privately, fragmented, or softened

to fit conversations that feel safer but incomplete.

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This space exists because stories matter.

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Why Sharing Stories Matters

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​For the Individual

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Sharing a story can reduce isolation. Not because it resolves grief or provides answers, but because it allows an experience to exist without being corrected, reframed, or minimized.

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For some, writing is a way to organize what feels overwhelming.
For others, it is simply a way to place their experience somewhere outside their own body.

There is no expectation that sharing will feel relieving or transformative. Sometimes it simply feels honest. That is enough.

 

For Connection

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Many people discover that the most grounding moments in grief come from recognizing themselves in someone else’s experience.

Reading another person’s story can bring language to feelings that were difficult to articulate. It can normalize reactions that felt confusing or out of step with dominant narratives. It can remind people that they are not alone—even when their grief feels complex, conflicted, or unresolved.

 

For Understanding

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Public conversations about assisted dying often focus on policy, autonomy, or outcomes. What is less visible is the lived reality of those who remain afterward—or those who were involved professionally and left carrying ethical or emotional distress.

Stories help fill that gap.

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They add context where abstractions fall short. They introduce nuance where certainty is assumed. They complicate narratives that are often presented as settled or straightforward.

This does not require consensus. It requires listening.

 

For the Future

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Some people choose to share their story quietly and privately. Others hope their experience might contribute to education, awareness, or future conversations about care, safeguards, and impact.

 

Both are valid.

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This space is designed to hold stories with care now, while allowing contributors to decide later—if at all—how their experiences may be used. No story is shared publicly without consent, and participation never requires advocacy.

 

A Final Note

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You do not need to know why you are sharing.
You do not need to be certain, resolved, or ready to explain yourself.
You do not need to participate beyond what feels manageable.

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This space exists to hold what is often carried alone—and to do so with care.

© 2023 by Alicia Duncan

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